Soccer Time!

Another soccer season has come and gone.  We had a great experience this season also.  The coaches were great, the boys and girls on his team were sweet, and the parents were nice/fun to be with.  There were 3 boys on this team that were together last season.  Two other boys plus Jacob.  This season all of the kids actually played, it wasn't JUST Jacob out there.  We were really glad for that as he got quite discouraged by the end of last season. 

 Jacob leading the pack.

 Jacob and Landon break away from the crowd to get the ball down to the goal!

ummm....great job Jacob for making a goal but...it was supposed to go in the other one!

goalie

he's ready for anything that comes his way

way to block that ball!

ok - here's another one

and another block!

ugg...

and...he's the leader again

(I wasn't a proud Mom or anything!)

great game everyone!

my favorite soccer player of all time!

The Dolphins Spring 2010

Bringing Tay home

Stepping back a few weeks to get this blog caught up. 

Lia and I left to see Brad & Lesha when we heard baby Tay had arrived.  The day they brought her home from the hospital Mom, Dad, and I kept Trace, Trevin, and Lia occupied until the car finally pulled into the driveway.  Trace & Trevin were so excited to finally have their baby sister home they could hardly contain themselves. 

This is a little glimpse of how we spent the day waiting...

Driving various and sundry vehicles

eating plenty of Goldfish

generally monkeying around

and finally taking a little rest with Papa.

(These two can't breathe without the other.)

FINALLY!  Tay got brought home to a house full of people who love her.  Not the least of which was her brothers. 

Trace & Trevin knew just what she needed as soon as she got home - read to.  They brought her all kinds of books.  She got quite an education from the Bearenstein Bears as soon as she came in the door!

The next day Papa and Lia get to spend a little quiet time with Tay. 

And Lia contemplates weather or not she's going to have to give up her place as "Papa's Doll".

The answer is no.  Papa just has two dolls now.  Perfect.

The quiet time didn't last long until Tay's #1 fans come checking things out!  They come bearing gifts of course.  'Cause that's what big brothers do.

One last look at Tay before we leave. 

Sleep tight sweet baby girl - surrounded by a Minnie Mouse lovie from your cousin, a stuffed dog from your brothers, and more love than you'll ever know.

And one more before we leave...my favorite niece (in TX) and I.
Tay will always have an extra special place in my heart.
I will never forget the baby we lost that would be her age.

8th Anniversary

The kids and I just got back from a trip with my parents at 1:30 this morning...to say that I'm exhausted and overwhelmed is an understatement.  There is much catching up to do on this blog but I didn't want today to go by without acknowledging a very important milestone in my life...another wedding anniversary.  Where have the years gone?  So...happy anniversary to us!  We've now spent 4 years as a married couple in FL and 4 years as a married couple in TX.  I wonder where we'll be 4 years from now? ;)

Newest Love

Introducing...

Tay Ladell

To say that we're all smitten is an understatement!  She came into the world being much loved, not the least of which was from her brothers and cousins.

If this doesn't melt your heart...

The sweetness of this makes me cry...

Lia will never have a sister.

I hope she and Tay grow up to be great friends.

More photos from the weekend Tay was born will come later.

Mardi Gras

This past weekend our family spent a little time in Natchitoches, Louisiana.  The plan was to walk around town for a bit, see the sights, then head to a friend of ours house for the night.  We ended up getting there a little later in the day than planned but that worked out great as there happened to be a Mardi Gras parade that evening.  It was a very family friendly parade (unlike many Mardi Gras parades) that we all had a great time watching.  The kids thought catching all the beads was the coolest thing ever.  Between the beads, candy, and stuffed animals, they were in "Kid Heaven".  Natchitoches is where the movie "Steel Magnolias" was filmed.  Just a little something you didn't know you didn't know.  I think I may be the only female on the planet whose never seen it - I'm going to have to now. ;)

Just a few sights from town.

Jacob & Lia in their masks.  My "King" and "Butterfly Princess".

Are they not just too cute! 

It was cold that day and I hadn't packed a warm enough jacket for Jacob so he borrowed Nana's coat.  Several people told us Jacob was doing a great job dressing the part of King with his "cloak" on. ;)

My babies and me.

The three "Kings" in our party.

David & I with my Mom & Dad

*nothing inappropriate was shown in the gathering of these beads!

*I got a video of the parade but no photos of the floats - WHAT was I thinking??

Us

As I look through past blog posts I see a million pictures of my kids, some of myself (thanks to Carin and her challenges), but not many of David.  And certainly not many of us together. Sooo...here we are.  In all of our "just chilling at home on the back porch with a couple of friends" glory. 

We had a couple of friends over for hamburgers grilled outside and a game of dominoes. (I introduced you to their Mom here.) These photos are not the greatest quality as far as coloring, lighting, yadda, yadda, yadda - but they tell a story.  A story about how we spent one evening just enjoying our life - it's not fancy, it gets a bit messy sometimes, but at the end of the day we have no regrets and just enjoy who we are. 

Lia gets her back tickled by Clint.  Much giggling ensued.

Jacob has a little fun with Adam.

On to the dominoes...David gets a little help from his best girl...

...as Clint gets help from his best little buddy.

And no matter how messy life gets, everything can be made better by a telephone call to Papa.  This is an everyday occurrence at our house.  She doesn't say much, but she sure does love to hear his voice.  It's the highlight of her day. 

I think there's a lesson here for me.  Get in touch with my Heavenly Father every day,  don't say much, and do a whole lot of listening.  

(yes, yes, she has cuts, scrapes, bruises, and ketchup all over her - much like real life!)

On to a piano concert before bath time.

As you can see, she puts on quite a show - much like most aspects of her life.

Not to be outdone by his sister, Jacob impressed us with his strength and balancing skilz.

And that, my friends, is how we spent our Sunday evening.

Just Because...

...this makes me smile.

Yes, yes, there is a story behind this photo.  I'll eventually get this blog caught up and I'll yack about what is going on here...in the mean time I want to see something that makes me smile when I pull up my blog.

Empty Arms

I have no idea where to start.  I guess “I hurt” would be a good place.  Mentally. Emotionally.  Today is the day our baby was due.  Of course there will be no baby for us.  I know there are others in harder situations than ours.  I know others have suffered much more than we have.  I know we already have two healthy, beautiful, wonderful children.  I know something was wrong with our third baby or s/he wouldn’t have died.  I know so many things with my head.  But my heart doesn’t care.  My heart only understands emotions, and right now those emotions are pretty painful.  Someone wrote “The loss of an unborn child leaves no physical evidence to the rest of the world. Their smiling face and bright future are left only in the dreams and hopes of the parents. We grieve every day for what could have been. We sit at the dinner table where there could be another plate.  We wish that there was one more smiling face in the family portrait. So many wonder how can you miss something you never had.”  Those words are so true.  The thing is, we did have that child.  But it was only for a little while.  And though they never left any marks in the world, they left marks in our hearts.

You never said you’re leaving,

You never said goodbye.

You were gone before I knew it,

And only God knows why.

A million times I’ve missed you,

A million times I’ve cried.

If love alone could have saved you,

You never would have died.

To some you are forgotten,

To others just part of the past;

But to me who loved and lost you,

Your love will always last.

In life I loved you dearly,

In death I love you still.

In my heart you hold a place,

That nobody could ever fill.

It broke my heart to lose you,

But you didn’t go alone.

For part of me went with you,

The day God took you home.

~Unknown

I wish instead of crying today because of the loss of our baby, I was crying for joy.  For the joy of announcing the birth of our Bennett James or Presley Ann. 

Outtakes - Jacob & Lia together

And finally...photos of Jacob and Lia together.

I think you'll see a trend here...

 

Later I decided I could have sent this one out.  Oh well.

Outtakes - Jacob

As promised - a few outtakes from Jacob's session.  As I mentioned before, he's 4.  He understands certain "magic" words.  He responds well to them.  (I'm not silly enough to think I"ll ALWAYS be able to get away with this!)  After that build up with Lia I hope this isn't a let down. Jacob did really great.

Oh, sure, he did silly things like pull his pants up to his chest practically.

He showed off his tongue rolling skills.

 But mostly, he smiled sweetly at his Momma as he really, REALLY wanted a trip to Chick-fil-a!

This boy...he's my heart. 

And, really, could there be a more beautiful little boy?  I think not.



Somehow, I just don't think it would have been right for me to send a card out with only Jacob's smiling face on it and not Lia's too. 

Up next - trying to get the two of them together!

Outtakes - Lia

I didn't get cards sent out this year at Christmas time or New Years.  I had such great intentions.  I bought nice clothes, agonized over which pair of leggings to put on Lia, found a location I loved that had the right colors for the background, yadda, yadda, yadda.  The big day came for me to take the kids out for the shoot and I was certain that unlike last year, I was going to get some GREAT shots of my kids.  Weeeel...it didn't exactly turn out that way.  Oh, the location was fine, the clothes looked good, and the kids were fed and happy when we got there.  But when a 2 year old decides she is NOT going to cooperate, not amount of begging, pleading, bribing, singing, acting goofy, etc. is going to work.  You just can NOT reason with an unreasonable toddler.  She looked cute, she made me laugh, but she also made me want to pull my hair!  Last year I sent out a funny card.  I actually sent the "out takes" and had a cute little saying on it.  But this year, I wanted something classy.  Not cutesy. 

I present to you Mizz Lia...

When I purchased the dress for Lia I knew I wanted to find something else to add to her dress to give it a little pizazz.  I found what I *thought* was the perfect accessory at a wonderful little children's shop.  I didn't have her with me at the time but I just knew this was going to look really great with her red dress.

ummm...not so much

It's WAY to big for her small frame.  You think this looks funny?  You should have seen what it looked like when I put it in her hair! 

So...here she is looking all excited about being there and having Mom whip out the camera.

Then she sees it...the THING!

"what is this? what will it do to me?"

"OK, I'll pretend I don't know it's there and just entertain myself.  But I will NOT look anywhere near Mom's direction."

"Oh, OK, I'll look at Mom.  Hey Mom, how's THIS for class!"

Then I decided to take the "thing" off.  She didn't really like that.

And, really, how can you go on taking photos when you're getting these looks?  I kind of wanted to cry with her.  But I think it was for reasons different than hers!

This, my friends, is the reason there were no cards sent out during the holidays.  Maybe next year?

Up next - Jacob.  He's 4.  He understands magic words like "McDonalds, Chick-fil-a, the park". He responds to them very well!

Photo Wall Answers

Thanks for you compliments on my photo wall.  A couple of you asked what the photos are printed on.  I ordered the photos on matboard so that they would stand up in my little shelf.  And, yes, I made those ledges myself.  (Well, my brother *may* have helped some too.)  The small photos are 5X7 and the large ones are 16X20.  Over time I plan on adding/subtracting/changing the photos.  What ever suits my fancy.  That's one of the things I like most about this is I can change it all around it won't be expensive or leave holes in the wall!

Thanks, too, for sharing with me what your favorite part of your home is.

Photo Wall

Over the course of the last 3 years I've done a few things to our home to give it a much needed "face lift".  Our house was built in 1979 and in many ways it still looks like 1979.  But we're working on that a little at a time.  Most of the rooms have been painted now.  Amazing how much of a difference that makes.  The project that I'm most proud of, though, is my photo wall in the kitchen eating area.  Sometimes I just sit and look at these photos and take a little trip down memory lane.  This area makes me smile like no other.

1.  July 2007 - J was 15 months old and we had just moved back to TX.  I took him out to a local park one  day for fresh air and a photo shoot.  He started walking for the first time as we were out there.  Talk about being feeling lucky!  He was all dressed up in a cute little outfit, I had my camera in hand, and we were at a great place for taking pictures.  I was so proud of my little boy.

2.  April 2010 - J's "official" 4 year old photo.

3.  July 2010 - summer fun.  J was 4 yrs 3 mo and Lia was one month shy of 2 years.

4.  October 2008 - Lia's first church convention.  J was 2 1/2 yrs, L was 3 weeks.  Texarkana, TX

5.  March 2010 - J 4 yrs, L 18 mo

6.  May 2007 - J 1 yr.  David had just moved to TX but J and I were still in FL trying to sell our house there.  This was taken one Sunday evening when we went for a walk on the beach with my In-Laws.  I wanted to send some pictures to David to make him smile.  I'm not sure if that was the result, though, or if it just made him home-sick.

7.  May 2009 - L 8 mo.  Lia in her "Heelarious" shoes.  Yes, at 8 months I had a pair of zebra striped stilettos for her! ;)  The girl loves shoes.  I'm not sure where she gets that from.  Of course at 8 months she was really more interested in eating them than wearing them.

8.  September 2010 - L's "official" 2 yr photo.

9.  March 2010 - L 18 mo.  I feel myself relaxing when I look at this photo.  I don't see her spunk and personality here, I just see beauty and perfection.

10.  June 2009 - L 9 mo.  A friend of mine came out with me to do Lia's 9 mo shoot.  At the end of our session we just sat down to relax and yack a bit.  Teresa happen to have my camera in her hand at this point and shot this as Lia was relaxing on me.  This is another photo that I physically feel peace washing over me as I look at it.

11.  2009 - J 3 yrs - Taken one day at Teresa's house.  It was a beautiful day out and J was running around in true little boy fashion.  This just makes me happy.

Now you've all had a little stroll down my memory lane too.  Thanks!

What's your favorite spot in your house?